Nigerian dancehall star, Inetimi Odon, professionally called Timaya has affirmed it is challenging to find true love.
The Bayelsa-born singer made the declaration on the micro-blogging app, Twitter.
The” Bum Bum” crooner stated that it was difficult to find real love in recent times.
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He therefore sought to get fans’ opinions on the sensitive topic.
He tweeted;
“This day’s love is hard to find. Is it me, or y’all with me?”
Meanwhile, Nigerian actress, Sarah Martins has argued that it was possible for a man who loves his wife and family dearly to love, protect, and provide for his side chic.
But for women, the actress said, they can never cheat on their husbands and still love them like before.
Taking to her Instagram page, Sarah said once a woman cheats, she begins to withdraw the love and respect she has for her husband.
However, she said some side chics love their men more than the wives do.
She said:
“I saw a lot of comments on the post I made yesterday about a cheating wife and a lot of people were justifying the woman’s action.
“Truth is, man can love his side chic, provide and protect her and still love his wife even more and will never neglect his family. But truth is But you see ehh, a woman can never cheat on her husband and still love him same way. In some cases, they start looking down on their husbands, begin to be authoritative over silly things, they begin to find fault in virtually everything their men does, the man that u fell in love with and had kids for will begin to irritate you for no reason.
“They begin to compare their husbands strength with their man friend’s, they begin to harbor grudge more than necessary, they find it difficult to forgive or apologize etc. You all should stop comparing yourselves with men because men will always be men and the sooner you begin to accept the fact that you can’t compete with a man over infidelity the better for u.
“Most of these so called side chics loves your husbands even more than you do oh yes….. A side chic can support your husband financially, emotionally, sexually and spiritually but you as a wife can’t even lend him a kobo even when u have millions in your account as a sign of support to the family.
“Your side man friends can NEVER dump their partners because of you because they will have the mentality that if you can cheat on your husband with him, you can do worst things to him when he finally makes u his. So use your head and stop disgracing your children ! You may think nobody is seeing you but posterity will judge you sis. And you men that find joy in sleeping with people’s wives, posterity will judge you!
“I have seen where a man marries more than one wife and still love them equally but I’ve never seen where a woman marries more than 1 man. Even in the Bible MEN NA OUR OGA! Feminists if you insult me on these post trailer will jam u.”
